Understanding Over and Under Regulation of Emotions
Neurotic emotions can be categorized into two types: over-regulated and under-regulated. In the case of over-regulated emotions, certain feelings are suppressed or held back, while in the case of under-regulated emotions, individuals tend to be hypersensitive and easily triggered. It is important to recognize that people with neurotic tendencies can fall into either of these categories.
For those who struggle with over-regulated emotions, seeking assistance in managing and controlling their feelings can be beneficial. On the other hand, individuals who exhibit under-regulated emotions tend to build emotional barriers and become emotionally distant. This phenomenon is sometimes referred to as affect phobia, as these individuals have a fear of openly expressing their emotions.
Manipulation: Neuroticism and Personality Disorders
When neuroticism is present in individuals with personality disorders, they often resort to using manipulation tactics. These tactics typically include sulking, begging, coercion, seduction, ignoring, threatening, lying, or even threatening to end a relationship. Studies have revealed that neurotics who are undergoing therapy tend to employ manipulation more frequently in their daily lives compared to when they are actively receiving treatment.